Dear... I hope you have your family, friends, or whatever someone who love you and help to you through this shit. There are scars who don't heal in 100% with time, but I know one thing. With real love you can surpass everything ( at least you understand me when I say" everything") but if you are alone in your struggles or traumas, you can finish very bad. And this or these little pieces of shit aren't allowed to live without consequences. I am agnostic, but I believe a lot about the Karma. All your wrong doing, you will pay it. The problem is that most of the time, the victims rarely have the chance to see this in person. Or even to learn what happened. I don't know if you see a therapist, but it's really important for your sanity's health ( sure you already know that but still)
Wait, you tried to speak about your traumatic experiences, and a former member ( of this Web site?)was against it?Because at one moment I thought you had speak about BTS member !
If it's a former member of this thread, shame on him or her, how can people be so fucking stupid? Really. Victims of abuse have ALREADY ENOUGH difficulties to speak about their trauma because of the inner guilt and their breakdown because of the situation, I can understand why you don't want share something anymore, and that's too bad. Because we need testimony ! We need it for people who submit the same things, need it for the victims even if they are destroyed, because speaking is still a way of coping. Need it for wake up some people, and that they know they aren't alone in their struggle, because some disgusting pigs who should be castrated do what they want, without thinking about the terrible consequences.
Omg, your post wake up the angry side. Since I am a child, I HATE these type of people. These insects. Let people speak about their experiences for fuck sake ! I am not a victim of this sort of terrible shit, and even if I don't know how it is to cope with this, my big empathy plays against me sometimes. I heard too much in my life :" but why are you so angry? It wasn't you "
And then, I can tell you I shut up the mouth of all these people with strongs arguments. This type of sentence and way on thinking irritate me so much, this lack of comprehension and empathy make me sick. And then? I don't need to submit the same horrendous things, to be upset that someone else who doesn't merit to live with traumas. And that everybody pretend to not see it. Or worse. Don't care about this. Girl, if one day you want to share your story with the details that YOU want to give, you are in your right. Totally in your right.
If you want to keep this for you because it's too hard and difficult because of the same or guilt ( it wasn't your fucking fault but we all know how victims feel after something desastrous) that's okay and understable too.
Oh god *facepalm* I was screaming in rage behind my phone. I can't really stand people who react like this
I hope I didn't misinderstood the post