If you can’t see it... I don’t know how to make you.
You just generalized half the global population and stereotyped the shit out of them and it appears to be that your drawn to this particular theory due to your own insecurities. If someone did that to your group... oh, idk white conservative males, yo wouldn’t take to kindly to it. You’ve made it evident you didn’t think it was a fair caricaturization despite no one even making that caricaturization.
women are attracted to confidence - you know who else is? Men. pretty much everyone is except for predators who seek the opposite. Money, looks, stature, success.. those are the things that make people feel and give off confidence. Bad boys can have none of those things but usually exude confidence anyway - whether it’s bluster or not. Dating in a nutshell. I solved your riddle.