Fat epidemic

[Spades]

I was discussing the other night with a friend about the fat epidemic. I feel like this: If you sit on your ass all day shoving in food in your hole I have no respect for such lazyness and why should I? Someone who respects themselves take care of their body and it shows. If its due to slow metabolism aka hypothyroidism, thats something else and my condolences about that. But why on earth would I have respect for someone whos only interest is shoving food down their throats?

In my eyes these two are healthy normal bodies:

These arent and I stand by that 100%

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So how come so many defend being fat? Is the truth too hard to take in bc theyre fat themsleves or whats the deal? I dont feel bothered by fat people at all, I've had friends who were fat but they weren't in denial, they said out loud they were fat if it came up in discussion. Them I understand but the deniers? I do not. If I gain too much I say myself I've gotten fat and I lower my portions for a while and increase the exercise. Why is it that some people completely deny and get so angry when other people point out it's not normal nor healthy yet it's okay for them to pint out if someones skinny?

As a skinny/fit person I get comments all the time, always from fat women who are bothered by my size, yet I'm not bothered by theirs. They feel free comment on my size but not me on theirs. I find this intreresting. I get its socially unaccepted to be fat thus its considered bullying if one mentions a fat persons size but if you have too high of a metabolism and cant gain its just as hard for a skinny person to gain.

I'd love your comments on this one.

The whole wide world is going to shit and you're in here bitching about people being fat? You've gained too much asshole. Drop sum them lbs. LMAO... Some people's kids.

 

[morita]

Its a shame bc there are reeeally great workouts at home. Anita Herbert has some real good ones. But I know, at home one isnt as disciplined. I need the gym myself.

For me it's the opposite I'm more inclined to workout if I don't have any time constraint, not having to plan my workouts in advance is a relief.

 

[morita]

Just as I’m sure women admire men with more muscle definition

I don't think women care about muscles in a long-term partner, mostly because they assume muscular guys make less reliable partners. Just an observation.

 

[Cintra]

I should have been more clear, I thought the aura of negativity around the phrase "people watch" was implied.

I can deal with judgment on social media, but not with a partner. Like no, sorry that isn't going to fly. I would rather date a fat girl who is nice, than a hot one with her head on backward.

The negativity around the phrase was so strongly implied I thought you meant something really weird, like hiding in wardrobes, watching...

You had just been talking about sex...

Or I have a wierd mind...

Lol.

 

[Lisa]

The negativity around the phrase was so strongly implied I thought you meant something really weird, like hiding in wardrobes, watching...

You had just been talking about sex...

Or I have a wierd mind...

Lol.

That’s why I like asking questions...you can get a better idea of what someone means instead of assuming you know what they are talking about.

 

[Vixy]

For me it's the opposite I'm more inclined to workout if I don't have any time constraint, not having to plan my workouts in advance is a relief.

Yeah i agree with that. My gym is open 24/7 so I go sometimes at nights or anytime I feel like it. Its awesome.

 

[Vixy]

The whole wide world is going to shit and you're in here bitching about people being fat? You've gained too much asshole. Drop sum them lbs. LMAO... Some people's kids.

Im a tiny woman on 53 kilos "duude" I state what i observe and I observe fat women.

 

[Vixy]

I don't think women care about muscles in a long-term partner, mostly because they assume muscular guys make less reliable partners. Just an observation.

Actually when it comes to that my experience have been theyre more reliable. Ive had two or three muscleguys and they were both very faithful and reliable. Very loyal. Its about the personality usually. I think you notice straight away if someone is a loose person.

 

[Cintra]

That’s why I like asking questions...you can get a better idea of what someone means instead of assuming you know what they are talking about.

I agree.
I always try to clarify if I am not sure what people mean.

I seem to have gone on a few peoples ignore lists for doing that, I suppose they thought I was baiting or something.

 

[Lisa]

I agree.
I always try to clarify if I am not sure what people mean.

I seem to have gone on a few peoples ignore lists for doing that, I suppose they thought I was baiting or something.

That’s part of why people say they don’t like me..I ask too many questions...they feel like I don’t need to do that..or am trolling when I’m just trying to find out what they mean before I comment.

 

[Cintra]

That’s part of why people say they don’t like me..I ask too many questions...they feel like I don’t need to do that..or am trolling when I’m just trying to find out what they mean before I comment.

Sometimes I feel that there is an assumption of hostility.

I think its better to clarify though.
So many people from so many places. There isn't a common terminology for a lot of things.

Like chips, or jelly.

 

[Cintra]

I disagree. I find many men are very reasonable. Lots of men are perfectly fine with thicker legs and things like that. If you're 5'4 140 you won't have any trouble finding a guy. It's just fat men don't like.

I agree with your first sentence. most men are willing to accept a lack of perfection in their partner.
Its the patriarchal MSM that pushes the ideals of beauty at women, and tells people what they 'ought' to find attractive.

I disagree with your second sentence, because some guys actually do like large women.

 

[Lisa]

I agree with your first sentence. most men are willing to accept a lack of perfection in their partner.
Its the patriarchal MSM that pushes the ideals of beauty at women, and tells people what they 'ought' to find attractive.

I disagree with your second sentence, because some guys actually do like large women.

My husband works with a man who asked his wife to be bigger so that he wouldn’t be jealous and so to make him happy she stays fluffy. Idk when being fat turned to fluffy..but that’s what she called it.

 

[Cintra]

My husband works with a man who asked his wife to be bigger so that he wouldn’t be jealous and so to make him happy she stays fluffy. Idk when being fat turned to fluffy..but that’s what she called it.

Well, so long as she is happy with her weight, and he is not controlling her.

Feeders and their co-dependent victims are a very strange, but real phenomena.

Also I think the guy should have dealt with his jealousy, rather than asking his wife to change her body to mitigate it.
But if they are happy in their relationship its their business.

 

[Lisa]

Well, so long as she is happy with her weight, and he is not controlling her.

Feeders and their co-dependent victims are a very strange, but real phenomena.

Also I think the guy should have dealt with his jealousy, rather than asking his wife to change her body to mitigate it.
But if they are happy in their relationship its their business.

Ya, maybe they should have found a healthier way to deal with his jealousy too...but we all have perfect vision with everyone else’s problems sometimes.

I think it’s sad that she was willing to do that for him, because I have always hated being fat myself. But it must work they’ve been together for a long time.

 

[Cintra]

Ya, maybe they should have found a healthier way to deal with his jealousy too...but we all have perfect vision with everyone else’s problems sometimes.

I think it’s sad that she was willing to do that for him, because I have always hated being fat myself. But it must work they’ve been together for a long time.

I am glad it worked for them.
I think thats the best anyone can hope for.

But sometimes... feeders...
They fatten a woman like a herd beast, until she cant walk, until she is totally dependent.
And then they leave to grow a new one...

Frightening stuff.

 

[Aero]

The negativity around the phrase was so strongly implied I thought you meant something really weird, like hiding in wardrobes, watching...

You had just been talking about sex...

Or I have a wierd mind...

Lol.

Nah you're not weird. In a way, people-watching is like voyeurism. Like if a person is seeking some personal gratification through others it's still voyeuristic whether there is a sexual element or not.

In the case I brought up, there are undertones of sexuality though. Imagine the average thoughts of a judgemental people watcher to be something like "Ew I would never sleep with them, they're ugly". That sounds like gratification to me.

It's also interesting to note, the supreme court has a precedent that says even people in public space are guaranteed rights to privacy. Nobody knows about it or follows it, but it exists.

 

[Maes17]

Nah you're not weird. In a way, people-watching is like voyeurism. Like if a person is seeking some personal gratification through others it's still voyeuristic whether there is a sexual element or not.

In the case I brought up, there are undertones of sexuality though. Imagine the average thoughts of a judgemental people watcher to be something like "Ew I would never sleep with them, they're ugly". That sounds like gratification to me.

It's also interesting to note, the supreme court has a precedent that says even people in public space are guaranteed rights to privacy. Nobody knows about it or follows it, but it exists.

I don’t necessarily people watch, but over time I do get an understanding of peoples habits/intentions etc.

This is something I’ve taken to my advantage at work and how I became a favorite with the GM at my place.

My aunt who is an artist people watches. I find that kinda spooky or peeping tom-ish personally.

 

[Lisa]

I don’t necessarily people watch, but over time I do get an understanding of peoples habits/intentions etc.

This is something I’ve taken to my advantage at work and how I became a favorite with the GM at my place.

My aunt who is an artist people watches. I find that kinda spooky or peeping tom-ish personally.

Does she paint or draw people? Maybe she’s tryin to get ideas for her artwork?

 

[Maes17]

I don't think women care about muscles in a long-term partner, mostly because they assume muscular guys make less reliable partners. Just an observation.

Both men and women have their attractions.
I do like a fit body, but it’s not something I’d force my wife. We both appreciate the fact that we keep ourselves healthy to keep with the demands of life etc.