I agree with the majority of your post, but I believe we have to give fearlesslight a chance to get used to this thread. Learning about this can take years. God introduced me to it during 2017 but he began teaching me in 2018, so this took me 2/3 years to adapt, although it was pretty easy for me because if you have a relationship with him, you wouldn't really be surprised if he told you the dark news. Anyways, it's obvious fearlesslight, (If you're reading this, can I just call you FSL for short? If you disagree, it's fine) is most likely still a fan seeing as they told us things they don't understand.
It'd be more better to explain it rather than just bluntly say everything with irritation. (People who are lost look at celebrities as hard working, that's why I said it's best to explain) It's pretty emotional for them to take in, I can tell, as when I used to be a fan of bts, I actually had moments where I developed depression, and hatred towards God (Even tho he told me as soon as I found out about them that they were evil, but I dismissed it willingly) so their level of understanding is reasonable. If they can't handle it, that's when they can just leave, and we can go on about this thread.
As for you, fearlesslight, if you really want to know the truth, stick with us, and God (If you don't believe in God, sorry but he's literally the ultimate being to show you as long as you ask with faith, and not just for your benefit) and if it takes you a while, I understand. However, if you decide to just blow everything off, we will have no choice but to move on with others who want to know about it.
Also, I'm taking this seriously because of past encounters many of you have experienced, and I personally want people to feel welcomed here, though as we all know, if they want to disagree, or start something, that's when we suggest they leave/ignore them/move on.