softpower
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- Jun 9, 2019
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Thanks for the feedback, but no need for sympathy. I know myself that much to let the fantasies fade away.No need to delete your post. And I'm not concerned about your sexuality at all. That is your business and not mine. I simply have a different opinion, that's all. I'm sorry if I upset you by expressing it. That wasn't my intent at all. I was simply explaining why it came across as a little off.
Yes, fantasies are one thing. We can't always control them -- but we can choose not to indulge in them. Personally, I don't have fantasies about things I wouldn't do in real life because I think you are opening yourself up to temptation if you focus on it mentally. That is why the bible says you've committed the sin of adultery by just lusting after someone in your heart. It is meant to warn of the danger of indulging in fantasies because, after a while, the fantasies won't be enough and the temptation to act it out in real life will become too great to withstand. It is a little like trying to diet but spending all your time thinking about chocolate cake and looking at pictures of it online. You will at best be miserable focusing on what you can't have and at worse, you will break down and indulge in something you know you shouldn't. You are just punishing yourself with a guilt and shame cycle. Better to focus on other things so you don't think about it. Not the greatest analogy, but you get the point.
No shit sherlock, really ? who's the hypocrite now ? At least I dont hide being a human, why yall acting like pure angels sent from god ? I never called you delulu, I simply said you should face the truth that ships arent real and there are more serious things to fill the pages with, but now you getting all fucked up over a simple post ? A. SIMPLE. FUCKING. POST. And you didnt even catch the meaning of it.I should have seen this before I responded again, lol. You are right.
What makes any of you better than me ? You literally fill pages discussing which members are sleeping with each other, but nope, a girl thirst over them in a single post (as a fucking sexual being she is) and its a big no no. It was just a thought of a moment, are girls not allowed to talk about sex anymore ? Great job feminism, great job.